Luna Love

Look up at her tonight She shines like the stars don’t even exist If I could know her more intimately, I would love her even more tremendously Look at her glow With no explanation, baring flaws for the world to see I am intrigued by her beauty Curves showing she’s complete on her own despiteContinueContinue reading “Luna Love”

Independent &Dating: 5 Things I’ve Learned About Myself

There’s no real rulebook to dating. I believe in being yourself and building with someone who appreciates and reciprocates that. I can’t go searching for love anymore. I can’t try to control other people and their actions in the dating scene. But, I can control and analyze myself. In doing that, I’ve found that myContinueContinue reading “Independent &Dating: 5 Things I’ve Learned About Myself”

Honesty With Self

If you aren’t honest with yourself, you can’t fix it. You won’t be able to heal. You lose the ability to take control of your life and avoid creating vicious cycles. No loved one, licensed professional, pastor, or guru will be able to assist you in doing better, getting better, being better if you don’tContinueContinue reading “Honesty With Self”

B Well: Healing

So here I was, a month after breaking a toxic cycle in my life and choosing to start over. I knew that I was angry…hurt…hell, I was bitter. Pissed at myself for getting into absolute nonsense once again. I felt ashamed but that was quickly over powered by optimism for what was to come. EvenContinueContinue reading “B Well: Healing”

Lifestyle Godly: Intro

As I chronicle this journey, I’d like to tell you a bit about myself. I’ve always been a lover. I’ve had serious bad luck with discernment in my past when it came to relationships.  I’ve gotten myself into situations that I thought I’d never recover from, all because of the love that I have toContinueContinue reading “Lifestyle Godly: Intro”

New York

I always envision a rainy New York night, underneath the streetlights, set in black in white. A woman and a man walking hand in hand, under the shelter of an umbrella. He suddenly stops walking and she turns to him with concern. In one hand, he holds up the umbrella, shielding them from the rain,ContinueContinue reading “New York”

Manifesting & Me

Manifestation: an event, or object that clearly shows or embodies something, especially a theory or an abstract idea. You may have heard about how people use manifesting to live their wildest dreams and accomplish goals that seemed nearly impossible. You may have thought it to sound like some sort of sorcery. But it’s very possibleContinueContinue reading “Manifesting & Me”

Come and Go

Let that sadness come and go Let that sadness in even when it was never invited Let that sadness balance out the joy Let that sadness cleanse your dark matter with streams of salt water Let that sadness shut you in with a good book or a good friend But don’t you dare cling tooContinueContinue reading “Come and Go”

Note To Self

Think about it… We leave notes for our loved ones We leave notes for our children But have you ever left a note for yourself? When is the last time you told yourself to have a great day? To smile? That you look beautiful? Why is that it’s so easy to have dialogue with othersContinueContinue reading “Note To Self”

T shirt…

You ask me why women wear their man’s clothes. Well, I can’t answer for other women but I know why I do…   I love your smell. When I wear your big shirts, I am enveloped in your scent. It makes me feel like you aren’t too far away. It makes me feel like it’sContinueContinue reading “T shirt…”