Genesis

Since life is all about balance, how can we create more of it? How do we cultivate that peace within adversity? Let’s be transparent We’re all asking these questions in some form We’re all working to figure it out Let’s remember this fact. When we want to scream and shout, we can instead allow theContinue reading “Genesis”

Who Is B.Well?

She’s got wounds Scar tissue has hardened parts of her heart Yet it still beats warm Large in size, it is caged in the commons with walls ready to close in Protecting her from potential harm Her heart hops over hurdles but her mind is always prepared to retreat She’s a fighter. Stronger that sheContinue reading “Who Is B.Well?”

The Power of “No”

Do you know what feels like you’re frolicking in field of tall grass on a beautiful day? Do you know what feels like ice cold water on a sweltering hot day? Do you know what feels like (ladies) whipping that bra off after a long ass day? Saying “no” feels like all of these things…liberating!Continue reading “The Power of “No””

Independent &Dating: 5 Things I’ve Learned About Myself

There’s no real rulebook to dating. I believe in being yourself and building with someone who appreciates and reciprocates that. I can’t go searching for love anymore. I can’t try to control other people and their actions in the dating scene. But, I can control and analyze myself. In doing that, I’ve found that myContinue reading “Independent &Dating: 5 Things I’ve Learned About Myself”

B Well: Healing

So here I was, a month after breaking a toxic cycle in my life and choosing to start over. I knew that I was angry…hurt…hell, I was bitter. Pissed at myself for getting into absolute nonsense once again. I felt ashamed but that was quickly over powered by optimism for what was to come. EvenContinue reading “B Well: Healing”

Lifestyle Godly: Intro

As I chronicle this journey, I’d like to tell you a bit about myself. I’ve always been a lover. I’ve had serious bad luck with discernment in my past when it came to relationships.  I’ve gotten myself into situations that I thought I’d never recover from, all because of the love that I have toContinue reading “Lifestyle Godly: Intro”

Come and Go

Let that sadness come and go Let that sadness in even when it was never invited Let that sadness balance out the joy Let that sadness cleanse your dark matter with streams of salt water Let that sadness shut you in with a good book or a good friend But don’t you dare cling tooContinue reading “Come and Go”

The One That Got Away

I’m the One. The One your mother told you to cherish. The One your father told you not to mess over. The One media deems to be a “basic bitch” in one breath, then makes memes about craving in another. I’m the One. The One you don’t want. The One that you’ll check up onContinue reading “The One That Got Away”

All In Your Feelings

Perhaps just as love, peace and light are normal and natural, maybe…just maybe, so are the ugly feelings. Anger, jealousy, sadness, and darkness. Is it too much to believe that these dark feelings come just as easily as happiness, love, and light, if not easier? Just embrace it so that we can eventually balance it.Continue reading “All In Your Feelings”